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What do you do when you lose someone that meant so much to you? Why is it that when love leaves, it hurts so much that you can’t even cry? What is the big deal about love anyway, you mumble, seriously considering that perhaps it’s better to avoid loving altogether!
By the way nature of love, you open yourself up to possibilities. Possibilities to experience total bliss, passion and deep satisfaction: and likewise, the possibilities to experience total emotional devastation! But most of us view the possible benefits as being worth the risk, and so we involves ourselves with others to and be loved.
There lies the problem. Experiencing loneliness and a hunger for companionship; we hide who we really are because we want the approval of others. We go out and do things for other people and behave in ways that we believe will convince then to love us. We look for an even exchange of ‘give me then I’ll give you’. We require that others love us the way we want to be loved while we withhold and negotiate for the upper hand. We demand perfection and performance from our partners at the same time we are unwilling to make the sacrifices necessary it become the lovable person we seek to have.
If you do the things listed above you do not love; you are efficiently and in a businesslike manner exchanging services.
True love means having concern for and interest in those you are trying to love. Love means accepting them for who and what they are. Love is costly and love is demanding, and love is often very difficult. Love requires that your thoughts and desires be for another and that self-interests be set aside. In our ‘I-I, me-me, my-my’ society, true love is becoming harder and harder to find.
As we live, we age and then we die; so it is with our relationships. Some relationships have a life span of months; others live for decades. Equally important to loving is having the ability to let go and move on when love dies.
Some angrily express that these broken relationship were wastage of time. Although we may be hurt, it is foolish to think of your relationship as having no value because it didn’t last forever.
Know it that not all relationships are MANT to last forever. Many are just stepping stones on the river of life to get you to the other side where you will have become the person you were meant to be. Change must be expected as one ages and matures. Sometimes you and you partner certain attitudes will perpetuate painful feelings much longer than need be. attitudes such as ‘I can’t be happy without this person,’ or ‘life without him/her is too hard,’ or ‘after all I did, this is how she treats me!’ or ‘ I will never have another like him/her,’ or’ all women are just alike!’ won’t get you anywhere. Thoughts and attitudes such as these prevent you from letting go moving on and maturing mentally or emotionally.
Letting go hurts because not only do we let go of out partner, we must let go of all of our dreams of a life with them. We let go of our present stage of life and our expectations of that life. We let go of many viewpoints. We let go of identifying ourselves as a part of this relationship, as half a couple with this individual. We must let go and move on from this time of our life, as it is finished and over.
Letting go is bound to cause a deep sense of loss. Loneliness, anger, grief, jealousy, fear of the future, panic, and in some cases, a deep and depressing sense of failure are just a few of the emotion waiting for us at the end of a relationship where we loved deeply.
It hurts, but the hurt is not endless .remember that time is the ultimate healer. After a few weeks the sharp pains turn into a dull ache, and months after you will hopefully be able to take a step back and realistically assess benefits gained from the association. You can use this time alone wisely for introspection and spiritual development; understand your role in the failure of the relationship and vow to do things differently next time. Make plans for your future, do things you enjoy, or become productive and take care of other matters that need your time and attention.
Sure, you can feel bad all by yourself, but you will never feel as good as you can feel wrapped up in the arms of someone that you love with all your heart.
So, always give the gift of love freely, and allow love to come in, sit down, and make a real difference in your life.
Always remember� love is a gift. If you receive it, try and appreciate it. If not, don’t worry. Someone is still wrapping it for you.